{"id":1002,"date":"2015-09-07T07:19:18","date_gmt":"2015-09-07T11:19:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/?p=1002"},"modified":"2019-09-13T06:13:19","modified_gmt":"2019-09-13T10:13:19","slug":"life-saving-dog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/life-saving-dog\/","title":{"rendered":"Life Saving Dog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/CancerDog.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-1003\" src=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/CancerDog-221x300.jpg\" alt=\"Marika Warden of Ithaca, New York, with Suki the Havanese life-saving dog, photographed by Ray Possen\" width=\"126\" height=\"171\" srcset=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/CancerDog-221x300.jpg 221w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/CancerDog.jpg 360w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 126px) 100vw, 126px\" \/><\/a>\u201cRobin, Marika needs a dog. Her life depends on getting this puppy,\u201d my sister said, speaking of my daughter in the same tone as the doctors who insisted Marika\u2019s life depended on getting a bone marrow transplant. So in the fall of 2009, in the middle of our struggles with cancer, we got a jolly new <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sherylsmusthavs.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Havanese puppy<\/a>. She became the lifesaver we all needed. We couldn\u2019t help but laugh as Suki climbed to the tops of couches, to the shoulders of anyone sitting on the couches, and atop Marika\u2019s bed where she slept happily among the stuffed animals or under Marika\u2019s chin.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, Suki could not save the life of my daughter. But <a href=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/form.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">after<\/a>, nudging me up from bed and out of the house each day, and snuggling with me at night, Suki saved mine.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1004 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2-901x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Robin Botie of Ithaca, New York, photoshops loving hands all around Suki, her inherited Havanese dog.\" width=\"413\" height=\"469\" srcset=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2-901x1024.jpg 901w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2-768x873.jpg 768w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2-264x300.jpg 264w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2-624x710.jpg 624w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/FBSukiLifeSavingPost2.jpg 1407w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 413px) 100vw, 413px\" \/><\/a>I would go so far as to recommend that anyone who has lost a loved one should <a href=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/others-hearts\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">get a dog<\/a>. I would say Suki is my best friend. I would do anything for my beloved, inherited, life-saving dog. So why did I tell people all week, as we waited for the dog oncologist appointment, I would not let Suki get chemo or radiation?<br \/>\n\u201cIf she has cancer, I won\u2019t put her through all that pain and discomfort,\u201d I told them. But I told myself I couldn\u2019t afford it. In fact, as soon as I learned there was a chance of cancer, I had set a limit on what I would invest on my precious friend. Knowing people who\u2019d spent thousands of dollars on their dogs with cancer, I didn\u2019t know of a single cancer-surviving dog. I wasn\u2019t going to take a chance on losing my dog <em>and<\/em> my money.<\/p>\n<p>The oncologist appointment was followed by long hours of waiting and not being able to focus on work. Finally the doctor called with the results of the fine-needle aspiration biopsy. On the floor with Suki in my lap, I hugged the phone. I hugged Suki, closed my eyes, and buried my face into the soft fur on her head. Hanging up, I cried. Then I stood, lifting Suki, and danced with her in my arms. No cancer.<\/p>\n<p><em>Happy Birthday to my joyful Suki who turned six on Saturday. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&ldquo;Robin, Marika needs a dog. Her life depends on getting this puppy,&rdquo; my sister said, speaking of my daughter in the same tone as the doctors who insisted Marika&rsquo;s life depended on getting a bone marrow transplant. So in the fall of 2009, in the middle of our struggles with cancer, we got a jolly [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[374],"tags":[603,605,606,607,604,188],"class_list":["post-1002","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-374","tag-chance-of-cancer","tag-dog-oncologist","tag-havanese-puppy","tag-joy-of-dogs","tag-life-saving-dog","tag-my-daughter-died"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1002","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1002"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1002\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1002"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1002"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1002"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}