{"id":1249,"date":"2016-06-27T06:59:58","date_gmt":"2016-06-27T10:59:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/?p=1249"},"modified":"2016-06-27T09:21:51","modified_gmt":"2016-06-27T13:21:51","slug":"anymore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/anymore\/","title":{"rendered":"Not the Same Anymore"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Robin<\/em>\u201cI am not the same person I was before.\u201d Another mother said this, as the setting sun seared the landscape behind her. Sitting on the edge of a deckchair, hunched over an almost-empty plate, I looked up suddenly. Sweet light danced on her hair, on the pond beyond her, in the gardens, and in the faces of the others around us, the ones whose old selves had been torn apart by tragedies that now brought us together.<\/p>\n

I looked back down at my dirt-rimmed fingernails and at my very respectable outfit from the day before that I\u2019d hastily thrown on to replace the ragged clothes worn all day hiking with the dog, working on the computer, and messing around in the garden. It had been a full day. A good day. And now I was sitting around someone else\u2019s pond with friends and good food. Far away from the rest of the world and troubles I couldn\u2019t control.<\/p>\n

\u201cNot a trace remains of who I used to be,\u201d the other mother said. And I knew what she meant. Immediately. Exactly. Sadly. And Joyfully.<\/p>\n

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Are you who you used to be? How do you hold on to who you are and your beliefs when the world around you seems to be changing in ways that challenge your core values?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“I am not the same person I was before.” Another mother said this, as the setting sun seared the landscape behind her. Sitting on the edge of a deckchair, hunched over an almost-empty plate, I looked up suddenly. Sweet light danced on her hair, on the pond beyond her, in the gardens, and in the […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[702],"tags":[885,879,882,883,878,880,881,884],"class_list":["post-1249","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-702","tag-a-good-day","tag-change","tag-everything-changes","tag-global-change","tag-not-the-same-person","tag-old-self","tag-things-we-cant-control","tag-who-i-used-to-be"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t