{"id":153,"date":"2012-11-19T06:46:02","date_gmt":"2012-11-19T06:46:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/?p=153"},"modified":"2014-01-22T11:00:56","modified_gmt":"2014-01-22T11:00:56","slug":"cheers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/cheers\/","title":{"rendered":"Cheers!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-154 aligncenter\" alt=\"HOLIDAYCARD\" src=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD-768x1024.jpg\" width=\"520\" height=\"694\" srcset=\"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD-624x832.jpg 624w, https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/HOLIDAYCARD.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 520px) 100vw, 520px\" \/><\/a>The dark silent house brightened and hummed at 1AM when I finally arrived home after 4 days in New York City. The house hugged me as I dumped my bags in the mudroom and crawled straight away into bed. Happy to have a few hours of sleep before I would tear away again the next morning, I counted my blessings. And now, there is even more to be grateful for. Over the last week, I received several invitations for Thanksgiving dinners. Even Suki was invited to a few. Many, many thanks. But, more this year than ever, I look forward to Thanksgiving at home with my sweet inherited dog that has carried me through the most terrible troubles.<\/p>\n<p>On Thursday, Suki and I will hike in the morning with friends. In the evening we\u2019ll cuddle on the couch while I watch DVDs. In between, I will roast a turkey breast, cook up a yam dish with Calvados, make a gluten-free stuffing, watch the wildlife on the pond and read Alexandra Fuller\u2019s Cocktail Hour Under the Tree of Forgetfulness.<\/p>\n<p>Have a cozy Thanksgiving, my readers, my friends. A toast to you all, to your happiness and healing. 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