{"id":2339,"date":"2018-12-24T07:24:06","date_gmt":"2018-12-24T12:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/?p=2339"},"modified":"2018-12-26T08:56:51","modified_gmt":"2018-12-26T13:56:51","slug":"trying-to-be-happy-for-the-holidays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/trying-to-be-happy-for-the-holidays\/","title":{"rendered":"Trying to be Happy for the Holidays"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Robin<\/a>Merry. Heartwarming. Happy. This week I wanted to report something cheerful, to make up for my last post where people responded, \u201cSo sad\u201d and \u201cI cried buckets of tears.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Having a good cry every now and then is healthy for us. Crying supposedly reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and removes toxins from the body. Personally, I love a good cry-fest, especially if it stems from someone else\u2019s sorrow. Seeing sad movies and reading books that make me blubber uncontrollably are perfect for giving my compassion a workout. But it\u2019s Christmas. And I\u2019m trying to be happy today.<\/span><\/p>\n

I promised friends I\u2019d serve up something uplifting this time even though spouting out joy and raucous laughter is still beyond my capabilities. Instead, I decided to aim for serenity. And peacefulness.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, on this quiet early morning I\u2019m remembering the times, decades ago, when my father used to take me and my kids to a warm sunny place during the holiday week. I\u2019m thinking of my little boy who sat smiling gratefully in the warmth of the tropical paradise we knew as Christmas back then. Actually, that smile is appearing more and more pained (as opposed to grateful), the more I look at this photo. But anyway, the boy has since grown to be a man merrily making his own way through holidays, and through life. This, to me, is Merry. Heartwarming. Happy. And even so, it still brings a tear or two. Of joy. Mostly.<\/span><\/p>\n

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What are you remembering during this holiday week?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Merry. Heartwarming. Happy. This week I wanted to report something cheerful, to make up for my last post where people responded, “So sad” and “I cried buckets of tears.” Having a good cry every now and then is healthy for us. Crying supposedly reduces stress, lowers blood pressure, and removes toxins from the body. Personally, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1432],"tags":[1765,1764,1766,1762,1767,1763],"class_list":["post-2339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1432","tag-crying-is-good-for-you","tag-holiday-blues","tag-holiday-memories","tag-merry-christmas","tag-tears-of-joy","tag-trying-to-be-happy"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t