{"id":2342,"date":"2018-12-31T07:30:05","date_gmt":"2018-12-31T12:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/?p=2342"},"modified":"2018-12-31T07:31:58","modified_gmt":"2018-12-31T12:31:58","slug":"i-wish-you-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robinbotie.com\/blog\/i-wish-you-time\/","title":{"rendered":"I wish You Time"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Robin<\/a>For the New Year I wish you time. Precious, beautiful, amazing time. This is my wish for all my online and offline friends, and family, and especially for my beautiful smart friend who is now running out of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Time is not something you can really gift another person, no matter how much you love her. You can spend time with someone and help them, comfort them, and perhaps get them to stop thinking about time for a while. We can wish them time. But I haven\u2019t figured out a way to actually give it away, to extend someone\u2019s time here on earth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Long ago, my colleagues at work gave me their unused sick-days so I could have time with my daughter who was in a hospital hours away from work or home. That was the best gift ever. If only there could be some sort of global pooling of unused or unneeded time, where people could drop off or sign away a day or even an hour of time from their own lives, to donate to one who is too young to die, or too loved to let go of. Like blood banks, we could have collection centers for people to leave off small portions of their time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Time is something few people have in excess, and you can\u2019t even buy time. For yourself, anyway. When my house was under construction, I told the woman who cleans, \u201cDon\u2019t come in next week. Here\u2019s the money. Please do something nice for yourself that morning instead.\u201d It was the closest I could come to giving away time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Weekly, I spend an afternoon with my friend who is dying, listening to her stories and sharing my own. I worry about taking up too much of her remaining time. But she assures me our time together is a gift.<\/span><\/p>\n

So I\u2019m wishing you all time. Time to spend with the ones you love, and to do the things you\u2019ve been wanting to do but had no time for. Time to see your children grown and settled. Time to see your face age like your parents\u2019 faces aged. Time when you stop counting the ever-increasing years gone by from when loved ones died, and you instead begin to hear their voices calling you closer. I wish you time to know you\u2019ve had enough time.<\/span><\/p>\n

Happy New Year, everyone. Here\u2019s hoping you have many more coming.<\/span><\/p>\n

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What do you wish for, for 2019?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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